The Big Brother Naija house is currently in a somber mood as the housemates got to watch the video showing what really happened between Kemen and TBoss.
Minutes after Desmond Elliot left, the housemates were informed that they had other guests coming in and it turns out the guests were two Ladies Yewande and Sarah who are sexual counselors.
They were told that they would be having a 4 hour session about sexual content and while the session was going on. The housemates were informed that they would get to watch the video showing what really happened between Kemen and TBoss.
After the video was played, the housemates were given the opportunity to speak about the event and they did.
Read their comments below:
I feel everyone that acts has gone through a thought process. Judging from this video, it looked like he must have thought about this issue before hand. To TBoss, I am really, really sorry and I hope that you forgive me for being really judgmental.
I feel as humans, we all have urges but the important thing is how we go about it. It’s really, really sad and I feel we the rest of the housemates need to do better and I pray that this never happens again.
The shocking thing about the video is that, what if this happened outside theb house? The way Kemen awoke makes it look like he planned and was waiting for the lights to go out before he acted. I am very sorry TBoss. If it happened to my sister, the guy is dead even if this disqualified me, I don’t care.
I never thought this could happen and I feel really bad that I joined the bandwagon to criticize TBoss. I feel like I have disappointed my mother who always told me to respect women. And Yes I find TBoss attractive but I would never violate your space.
I can’t put my thoughts into words right now because I have a lot of things going through my head.
I can completely relate with that video personally because I was once a victim. I might sound a bit religious but I’ll like to remind us of the spirit of Jesus and the ability to love and forgive.
That incident was quite unfortunate because I have a sister close to TBoss age and I ask myself what would have happened if that was her. On the part of the perpetrator, I imagine myself being in his own shoes. It all boils down to how we control our urges. I am really sorry TBoss for our actions but we acted in the spur of the moment and for this we are sorry. TBoss is really strong and I feel you may have forgiven us.
Kemen was a good friend and in fact the day before, he had given me a full massage. But I have never given him any greenlight to make him feel like it is okay to make a pass at me. Yes I walk around topless, but I never walk around fully naked. I don’t think I have ever give any of the guys in the house any reason to want to molest me. I was on my period and I can’t even begin to imagine what would have happened to me if there were no cameras there. Now I feel sad that he has been disqualified, despite what he has done. What is wrong with me?
I haven’t moved past this, I’m trying to deal with it. I feel dirty because suddenly I feel like washing everything because I’m anticipating it happening again. Kemen didn’t even take responsibility for his actions and he even dropped a bad word about me on his way out. Tomorrow is my birthday and I just want to start my year on a happy note. I really want to know what Kemen would be saying outside the house.
I am really angry because they all judged me.